Choosing to settle down with someone is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make, because it can literally make or break you.
People will give you different packages, but the fake ones almost always have something in common.
Time: They were either in a hurry or took too long to do things. They won’t have a stable direction, or they won’t have any direction at all (team, let’s see how it goes).
Needs: They will always only care about their own needs, which can be hidden. This will be about money, sexuality, power, etc.
Blanks: Their profiles, plans, histories, or stories will always have holes that don’t make sense and that they can’t explain convincingly.
Temperament, values, and too much control: They will try to hide these things, but if you know what to look for, you can always see what’s going on beneath the surface.
Spirituality: This will have gaps or be very fake where you are. You could easily find out the truth if you did the right checks when they weren’t looking.
Aligning: Your values won’t match up, but they’ll try to convince you that it’s not a big deal. But it is a big deal. These are just a few of the things to watch out for. You might not know everything, but there is enough information out there now that you can know enough to make better choices.
