No one gets married hoping it won’t work out, but that’s the way life is. Whenever the need for women to have a way to make a living comes up in a conversation, there are always people who speak defensively, almost as if having a job makes you less of a wife or mother. Still, many people who are in abusive marriages are in this situation, with no way out.
Everyone has to take care of their own families, so help doesn’t always come. Your best bet is to do it yourself.
I’ve had a lot of people come to me for counseling. Some of them are married to the richest people in the area, or even royalty, but they can’t even pay for the sessions to help themselves.
The worst part is that everyone would think you were rich, even though you were stuck.
Your husband owes you something, but that’s not enough. Having your own is important. This is one of many times of the year.
Many people will say that they are staying because they have children, but the real reason is that they don’t have the money to take care of their children.
At the end of the day, it’s up to you.
