Typically the reason many will not leave phones unlocked, this is a narrative all too familiar.
We often attribute very little to the wife at home, often seeking excuses around looks and weight even when it’s easy to see, being that wife is really not easy.
It’s easy to picture a woman somewhere else but often one touch away via our phones who currently fits what we want. Perhaps trim and curvy, flat tummy, perky twins, fresh hairdo and all. The excitement is there and one may even wonder why this wife cannot be like that.
We forget though, this wife used to be that and that’s why the marriage happened to begin with.
Your wife will change a lot but how you view her, how sweet she stays to you, is a function of your own mind and deliberate efforts.
If you put efforts into reducing the stress while spending more time and resources on her, she’d also easily be able to be that which you fantasize about.
Yes, the wife also has a role to play but I promise you, if you focus on her and work together as a team, you can achieve whatever heights you desire in intimacy and connection.
This is a common case so know you are not alone. It takes both of you to make it work but it takes one person to start. That person can be you. Send me a message to get started.