Sexual compatibility in marriage is being used more and more as a “legal” way to take advantage of people who may have said “no sex” in a relationship.
Yes, sexual compatibility is a big deal in marriage, but what no one tells you is that you and your partner can reach that state if you both want to.
No two people are perfectly sexually compatible at first. They adjust to get to the level they want by paying attention to their desires and what needs to be done to get those desires, like doing a SWOT analysis of your rounds and using that to get better, cloud 9 better.
What’s funny is how a large chunk of the people who complain about sex in marriages actually had sex before marriage. Even if you test everything that is said to be tested, your idea of what it means to be sexual will change several times during your marriage.
YOU MAY ALSO LIKE:
After 10 years of marriage, what does romance really mean?
IMPROVING THE DURATION OF SEX IN MARRIAGES
Follow This Procedure to Increase Sexual Stamina in Your Wife
Your experience on your wedding night is likely to annoy you during the first trimester, confuse you during the second trimester, feel awkward with your growing belly during the third trimester, be too painful to try right after you give birth, and never feel exactly the same even after you heal.
(Repeat this for every pregnancy after this one and add age effects.)
So, stop saying, “Let’s do it to see if we’re sexually compatible.” That’s a lame reason.
But you can also ask the people who want it to defend and explain why they want it.
They’d struggle to top the above points.
