In our society, sexual orientation is a big deal and one of those lines that would hurt a lot of people.
By default, when a marriage proposal is made, it is assumed that it is between a man and a woman, so imagine how shocking it would be to find out that your spouse likes people of the same sex.
Having an affair is already a big deal, but having one with someone of the same sex takes it to a whole new level that many people find hard to understand.
Do you leave, pray, or fight?
In the end, it’s almost too much for the marriage to handle.
First of all, there has been infidelity, which needs to be dealt with. However, the issue of orientation is one that you would definitely need to talk to someone about, given our different cultural, social, and religious backgrounds.
You have the right to choose what you want to be, but anyone who feels they need help can get it.
The partner who just found out needs help to deal with the trauma.
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Many people got into this for different reasons, and for them to move forward, they need to be able to talk freely in open, nonjudgmental groups.
Even though it may seem like a lot is going on, a marriage can survive and even grow.
It happens even more often to women, but it is what it is.
This is a subject we never talk about, but it keeps sneaking into our stories.
It can be hard to know what to do next.
Find a professional you can trust to take care of your problem so you can get it off your chest.
From there, you can make plans and try to make things better.