– You are always afraid to say what you think. – Conversations that are serious can’t happen. – You are avoidably lonely. – Problems are dealt with by making threats – Words that hurt are the norm. – You are not allowed to grow. – You are hurt by other people. – Keep quiet. – Not being pushed enough. – You can’t talk to your friends and family. – You can’t move around nearly enough. – Someone is watching you. – There is emotional blackmail. – No apologies, even when it’s clear you’re wrong. – What you earn can’t be…
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No one gets married hoping it won’t work out, but that’s the way life is. Whenever the need for women to have a way to make a living comes up in a conversation, there are always people who speak defensively, almost as if having a job makes you less of a wife or mother. Still, many people who are in abusive marriages are in this situation, with no way out. Everyone has to take care of their own families, so help doesn’t always come. Your best bet is to do it yourself. I’ve had a lot of people come to…
Choosing to settle down with someone is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make, because it can literally make or break you. People will give you different packages, but the fake ones almost always have something in common. Time: They were either in a hurry or took too long to do things. They won’t have a stable direction, or they won’t have any direction at all (team, let’s see how it goes). Needs: They will always only care about their own needs, which can be hidden. This will be about money, sexuality, power, etc. Blanks: Their profiles, plans,…
If you look at the numbers, you’ll see that marriages in religious circles seem to have the same or even more problems than those in secular circles. This makes you wonder what exactly the prayers, fasting, and supposed religious values are for. You would be wrong to think that they are not important. The problem is that people were told from the start to pray and go to sleep instead of working. One common example is getting married to someone you didn’t bother to talk to long enough to get to know the basics about. If you look at all…
You have the right to privacy on your devices, but when you get married, that right changes because your spouse also has the right to know what you are up to (similar to how you also deserves to know what said spouse is up to). People who have something to hide give off signs, whether they are aware of it or not. Spouses can pick up on these signs. You might be able to bully, guilt-trip, or manipulate your way out of situations, but if you are nervous every time your phone comes up, hiding, deleting, clearing logs, etc., then…
Going through this is hard enough, but many people also face discrimination, which makes them even more afraid to talk about their conditions. Many people then make the mistake of keeping it a secret because they think that once they are married, it will be hard for the other person to back out. Know first that this is always wrong from a moral point of view. These conditions will affect different parts of your marriage that will affect your spouse’s life. You can’t say you love someone and then use them to get what you want. If the love is…
Sexual compatibility in marriage is being used more and more as a “legal” way to take advantage of people who may have said “no sex” in a relationship. Yes, sexual compatibility is a big deal in marriage, but what no one tells you is that you and your partner can reach that state if you both want to. No two people are perfectly sexually compatible at first. They adjust to get to the level they want by paying attention to their desires and what needs to be done to get those desires, like doing a SWOT analysis of your rounds…
I WON’T CHEAT EVER AGAIN: Everyone wants to think that their boyfriend won’t cheat on them again, but if he’s done it once, he probably will do it again. Cheating turns into a habit that is hard to break. If you find out that your boyfriend has been cheating on you, it’s a clear sign that you should move on. He has no respect for you or the relationship you have with him. OCCUPATION: You will find out where he works and confirm that he does work there. Luckily for the guy, that’s all most women want to know, so…
People ask me how they can “keep the romance alive” in their marriages because I write advice columns. This confuses me a little because I know that when they say “romance,” they mean the traditional kind, which is based on living inside a big, exciting question mark. This version of romance is all about that exciting moment when you think you might have just met the person who will make everything in the world feel delicious, amazing, and right forever and ever. It comes from big questions like, “Can I really get what I’ve been looking for? Will I finally…
In order to make a better life for ourselves and our families, one of the choices we have to make today is whether to stay where we are and build there, or to move somewhere else, start over, and build from there. Many people think it’s an easy question to answer, but the cost of moving makes it hard. I’m not just talking about how much it costs in money, though that is a part of it. I’m also talking about what you have to give up and how the benefits are often overlooked. It might seem easy to move…