This is the leading cause of cancer deaths among females. It is a very dangerous type of cancer, especially if not detected early. It is however diagnosed in stages. So to reduce the mortality rate, there’s a need for awareness about the symptoms and screening processes. Though breast cancer symptoms here will be focusing on females, it does occur in males too once in a blue moon. SYMPTOMS One of the symptoms of breast cancer that is noticed in most cases is the thickening of the tissue in the breast and armpit (mostly because the breast and armpit share…
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Many marriages have been destroyed by siblings & parents with wrong marital values, understanding, decorum or appropriate approach. Other times because they do not understand what you have been blessed with. The same people helping to create tension in your home may be because they desire for you, the status they hold. It may be because they are unhappy with how you are doing. Be careful & prayerful. Be protective of your marriage & home because after all is said and done, the same people will come back to mock you when they succeed in destroying your home. Family is…
1. He has no solid plan for the future (his and yours) 2. He is controlling. 3. He lies. 4. He has no mind of his own. 5. He is always complaining and rarely positive. 6. He is abusive, rude and lashes out without control. 7. He does not have a properly defined one on one relationship with God. 8. He does not have good family ties. 9. He has no defined legitimate occupation or source of income. 10. Alcohol and substance are a major part of his life. 11. He always has to have the final say. 12. He…
Causes of erectile dysfunction Erectile dysfunction is simply the inability of a man to obtain or sustain an erection, especially during sexual intercourse. But naturally, erections are natural and they can occur spontaneously many times during the day, even when not in the act of intimacy. Since an average healthy man has about 11 erections on a daily basis and around 3-5 in the night. So before we look at what causes erectile dysfunction, it is safer to know how the whole mechanism works. Don’t worry! It’s not rocket science. Majority of the people believe the…
Infidelity is perhaps the biggest issue marriages face today. Sometimes, it’s straightforward, other times, complex. When we hear ‘cheating’, we often think about sexual affairs but it doesn’t need to include sex for it to be that. A lot of cases begin very simple with numbers exchanged but then the conversations get exciting, and deeper to the point where it is filling a void. That’s the point where you keep checking to see if your messages have been replied and when they do, you get excited. It evolves and you find yourself feeling attracted to what the person represents even…
You hear a lot of wives complain about mothers in law but they forget to talk about their own mindset, character, conduct and so on. Many go into marriage with the misconception that a mother in law, by default, will be bad and wicked. This is not true. While I agree there are several mothers in law who are difficult, there are also many wives with bad behavior. Fortunately for them, they tend to be more vocal, energetic and technology savvy so they run to social media to push one sided narratives, knowing that there’d be people online waiting to…
One of the issues wives find difficult to complain about today is short and inadequate sexual experiences with their husbands. There are different sides to this but the more peculiar ones to us are social and emotional. There is the ego of the man being protected because the wife knows he is raised to see sex as a huge part of what makes him ‘man’. There is also the self-protective part of not wanting to be made out as the one who desires too much from being ‘loose’. Then, there is the cultural side to it of wanting to keep…
Many think because penetrative sex has not happened, it is not cheating. This is wrong. The moment you begin to do something that goes against being loyal to your spouse then you are cheating. I often hear people claim “nothing is happening, we have not had sex”. No, it doesn’t need sex, it may be as little as a flirty chat, a deliberate compliment laced with undertones or sexual innuendos. Ask yourself if you’d be able to freely and morally do it with your spouse knowing. If you cannot answer yes then you are there already. Now, many reasons will…
It’s common to hear women complain about husbands. You may even think that’s all marriages are about but beyond the narrative, many women do the very things they claim husbands do. You talk about how a man doesn’t do this and that yet you have never tried to understand the man. Even on social media, it’s the same! A woman is by default the victim. The man is judged before anyone has even heard from him (well except it’s his mother or sister commenting). Talks for the issues of men get applauded, talks for the issues of men littered with…
Marital intimacy needs energy, motivation and attraction. Unfortunately, many of us have setups that ensure that our spouses are completely tired from running the house. A person who has spent all energy taking care of the house and children is unlikely to be able to engage in amazing love making. Sex is physically demanding. Beyond that, for many, the only time spouses get treated gently and with a tiny bit of care is when they want sex. It is not automatic, a person you constantly treat poorly is unlikely to be attracted to you enough to stir fantasies. Everything, when…