Even if you love your partner, that doesn’t mean you’ll have a good time together. You might really love someone but hate being married to them. Love is not the same as getting married. Marriage requires conscious actions that will need to change as you and your partner grow. Even if you love someone, if they are not fun to be with, your marriage will suffer in the long run. In conversation and other areas, it’s the same. You need to be careful. Walk together Work out together Eat together Have movie time Talk more Play more Go on dates…
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Cheating is when someone does or plans to do something that isn’t right in a relationship or marriage where there is a set or implied order. Many people think it’s just penetrative sex, but it’s more than that. It starts with the desire to cross a moral line in a relationship or union that is already in place. So, if you feel like you have to hide a chat or delete a message from your mate because it’s wrong, you’re already cheating. “But we’re not going to have sex.” Yes, you can cheat even if you’re not having sex. Here…
Extramarital affairs have been going on as long as people have been married, but now it’s more common for one married man to have an affair with another married woman. Yes, many of these cases could have been avoided, but a lot of them tell us something about our society’s values, goals, and limits, especially when it comes to marriage. If more people paid attention to their homes and partners, the number of cases would go down. If more people learned about marriage before getting married, more people would be able to handle their marriages better. Why, though, a married…
Because of how our jobs are set up, many of us work closely with people of the opposite sex. So, it shouldn’t be a surprise that some people will have the chance to cross the line when it comes to the level of relationship that is acceptable. There will always be chances for close relationships at work, and we all know that many of them are wrong or at best lead to sex. Because of how close work is, people often put their marital status in the background. This causes tension at home for a spouse who is available and…
You can be naughty with someone in a very sexual way by sending them naked pictures. This could be because you are far away or because you want to spice things up for the next time you meet up for sex. We get so excited that we lose all sense of reason right before we send it. This could be because we trust, want to trust, or just don’t care at that moment. But you should care because if you look into the mind of the person who wants to see the naked person, you’ll probably find a dark fantasy…
Even if your marriage didn’t work out, you still have to be a responsible father if you have kids. This means being there for them financially, socially, physically, spiritually, etc. Yes, you will have to follow certain rules if you and your ex no longer live together and if you don’t have joint custody, but you can’t let this one slide. Many people leave and come back looking for a way in, but they aren’t any better. Then how will the mother, who has custody and is paying for everything, let you in? It’s not fair to the woman who…
Don’t marry someone that sees marrying you as doing you a favour. This will be reflected (if you observe well enough) in their tone of talks, words, actions, reactions, references and treatment both privately and publicly. Yes, it is good to marry a person with value but you also should be valued. You need to actually have value to be valued by the way, so it begins with you creating it. When a person: – Shuts you up – Shuts you down – Shuts you out – Waves off your ideas & contributions – Belittles your existence – Always has…
There’s nothing wrong with a wife pitching in, but this shouldn’t be her main job all the time. Unfortunately, the hood-hearted help that many women gave their husbands turned out to be a regret when their husbands left it to them in style. Many people today are angry and tired, but they are being used in bad ways. You should pay the school fees, but you don’t because you know she can’t watch the kids if they stay at home. You don’t take care of the house, but you expect your wife to cook you exotic meals, etc. Even if…
In our society, sexual orientation is a big deal and one of those lines that would hurt a lot of people. By default, when a marriage proposal is made, it is assumed that it is between a man and a woman, so imagine how shocking it would be to find out that your spouse likes people of the same sex. Having an affair is already a big deal, but having one with someone of the same sex takes it to a whole new level that many people find hard to understand. Do you leave, pray, or fight? In the end,…
1. Be careful about what you say. You don’t have to insult people to make your point. 2. Don’t talk until it’s your turn. If you talk all the time, you don’t listen at any point. Let the other person speak. 3. Always keep in mind the point of the conversation. The goal is not to win, but to figure out what went wrong, learn from it, and get better. 4. Listen to what is said, but also listen for what is really meant. 5. Events from the past can be used to show a trend, but before you do…